When I was young, my dad turned nearly every window of our house into a leafy paradise. I remember wandering through that jungle and thinking, “I’ll never want that many plants.” Fast-forward 30 years, and here we are—my wife and I now own that very same house, and once again, every window is filled with greenery each winter. It’s funny how we change; even my wife just chuckles and rolls her eyes. Just last night, I somehow squeezed four more plants into our ever-growing collection.

So, what does all this mean?

Well, if you're a houseplant lover like me, you're probably always on the lookout for new, leafy friends to add to your collection. But sometimes, the only thing standing between you and that gorgeous monstera or delicate fern is… your spouse, roommate, or flat mate. If you've ever had to explain why “just one more plant” is absolutely essential, this post is for you! Here are some gentle yet persuasive ways to make your case.*

1. Highlight the Benefits

Plants are more than just pretty—they’re good for us too! Studies show that houseplants improve air quality, reduce stress, and even boost our moods. Plus, NASA has proven that certain plants can purify the air indoors. So really, adding plants is an investment in a happier, healthier home!

2. Propose Practical Plants

Some plants do double duty in the home. For instance, consider plants like herbs that enhance cooking (think fresh basil or rosemary right at your fingertips) or aloe vera, which is perfect for soothing burns. Not only are these plants beautiful, but they also bring practical perks that could win over even the most plant-resistant partners.

3. Show Off Low-Maintenance Options

A common concern is that plants can be demanding. However, not all plants require daily attention. Introduce them to easy-care plants like snake plants, pothos, or succulents, which thrive on minimal care. These resilient beauties will help ease concerns about time commitment or plant care.

4. Emphasize the Aesthetic Appeal

Plants can transform any room. Show examples of beautifully designed spaces featuring plants in colors and themes that your spouse loves. Whether your style is sleek and modern, cozy and rustic, or eclectic, there’s a plant to match.

5. Offer to Take Full Responsibility

Commit to taking on all plant care tasks. If your spouse is worried about a jungle takeover, reassure them that you'll handle watering, pruning, and repotting. Your dedication might just win them over.

6. Suggest a Small “Plant Fund”

Compromise is key, so consider proposing a modest monthly budget for new plants. This way, you can gradually add to your collection without breaking the bank or overwhelming the space.

With these gentle approaches, your spouse might just warm up to the idea of adding a little more greenery to the home. And who knows? They might even become a plant enthusiast themselves. Good luck and let me know if this works!

 

(*This is not an exhaustive list and much of it is said tongue-in-cheek! Happy houseplanting!)

Email: jmertins@ebertsgreenhouse.com